“When it’s over, leave. Don’t continue watering a dead flower”… written by the romanian writter Adrian Gabriel Dumitru
“When it’s over, leave. Don’t continue watering a dead flower”… written by the romanian writter Adrian Gabriel Dumitru
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We really don’t understand what the concept of change means for our lives.
Sometimes the change might appear as a desire ... but sometimes it can be ... a must.
And it becomes a must ... cause you live in a “dead” reality ... that does not make sense anymore.
A dear friend of mine ... married by many years ... was very deep in love with ... another lady.
His marriage was ruined ... but he was so happy because of the new love story.
And it was an amazing story.
He understood that everything he had with his wife ... was a relationship dead by years.
But the funny thing was that later on ... the same happened with the relationship he had with the other lady.
Something broke between them also.
A great love story ... became almost without realizing a toxic relationship.
He could not believe it.
Tried to save the marriage ... but failed..
Tried to save the relationship with the mistress and failed again.
Even if he knew the truth ... he could not accept that he was the “dead flower”.
He was not feeling alive for years ... and the new lady from his life ... was only created the illusion of happiness, cause someone that is not feeling alive ... cannot be happy.
The root of the problems with those ladies ... was his lost soul ... but is much easier to pretend that you continue “watering” ... something that represent a “dead flower” ... by a long, long time.
Yes ... sometimes the time for change has come ... but as for the case of my friend ... the change might be something totally different that it might look like.
The guy ... had to change ... not the ladies from his life ... but his soul ... leave the way he used to be and start showing his beautiful side.
... and the truth is that the change is only a decision!
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